Dilemma

Sometimes you know that you need to be there for someone you love and hold dearly to your heart...but the biggest issue is - how do you help them if you've never felt or experienced the pain that they've gone through. That is by far one of the most undesirable feelings that i've experienced...

you try to say something to make them feel better but then you hesitate...what if you inflict even more pain to their already-stabbed-countlessly-heart..or perhaps destroy the relationship that you and that person has developed in just a matter of second by muttering just a few innocuous words....all i should do is to shut my mouth up and to listen and just lend him or her a shoulder to lean on...an embracing sanctuary to escape into for just a few moments so that their troubles would be a million miles away..

pray that it gets better for all of us..to be strong whenever we some face to face with the monsters that dwell beneath our beds...the waves that crash upon the helpless ship in the middle of a storm or even the nerve-wrecking-brainteasing exams we student have to sit for during our school life...

helping someone you love is always on the top of our list of things to do or our priorities...i guess we can only do the best we can ...to our own abilities and strengths that we try to break the barriers that your loved ones try to build around themselves to block people from getting to the root of their sufferings..it is our determination that must prevail in order to ensure that they do not fall into the darkness of isolation, depression and self pity..it is the worst feeling ever..persevere in showing your care and sincerity towards his or her problems and maybe, JUST MAYBE he or she would finally pick up the courage to reveal their deepest most darkest secret that has been bottled up in their tormented soul...

remember that love for a family member, a friend, a partner or even a stranger can make the biggest difference in the world...